
Thank you for considering adopting a baby through Transitions. We
know you have probably traveled a long and difficult road to get here.
Therefore, we want to make your adoption experience as pleasant as possible.
Here are some answers to the most Commonly Asked Questions we encounter:
Commonly Asked Questions
Do you have an age limit for adopting
families?
The short answer is no. We don’t believe in arbitrarily setting
an age limit. We recognize there are wonderful people of all ages who
can be loving parents. Of course, by law, we cannot place a baby with
somebody who is less than 18 years of age. Also, when deciding whether
or not someone is too old, we question whether an adoptive parent will
be able to see the child into adulthood. Otherwise, we look at each
family on a case by case basis.
What if we already have children, will
you work with us?
Absolutely. Just as we don’t set an arbitrary age limit on adoptive
families, we do not set a limit as to the number of children in a family.
We know that large families can be as good a place for a child to grow
up as smaller families. Again, we look at each family on a case by case
basis.
Do I have to be married to adopt a child?
No. We have placed babies with single parents, and same sex couples
who cannot get married under current laws in many states. So long as
you have an approved homestudy, we will not turn you away. However,
we do ask birth parents what their criteria are in an adoptive family.
We honor their requests.
If we live in a state other than Pennsylvania,
can you work with us?
Yes. There are very few states with laws that are incompatible with
Pennsylvania that would make it impossible for us to work with you.
But before you begin the application process, you should check with
us to be sure your state is not one of them.
Do we have to give the birth parents
our first and last names?
No. In fact, adoption laws require that we keep identifying information
such as last names and addresses confidential, unless you tell us otherwise.
We do ask each adopting family to provide pictures and letters at least
once per year for the birth parents. Normally, Transitions would serve
as the intermediary. If a birth parent doesn’t want pictures and
letters, we keep them in the file should they later change their mind.
If they want letters and pictures more frequently, we will let you know
ahead of time, and you can decide if you feel comfortable with that.
If not, you can decline a referral until one is made that makes you
feel more comfortable.
What if I am not wealthy, and do not
live in a big house? Can I still adopt?
Yes. In fact, Pennsylvania Law says that it is unlawful for an agency
to prevent an otherwise loving family from adopting just because they
don’t earn a certain level of money. Of course, in order to be
approved to adopt a child, your homestudy social worker will want to
be sure you have adequate income to provide the baby with a safe and
secure home.
How does your agency hear about
babies who are available for adoption?
A number of ways. Hospital social work departments, pre-natal clinics,
crisis pregnancy centers, all refer women to us who are considering
adoption. In addition, we make a point of going out into the community
and providing education about adoption. Also, sometimes women who have
already placed one child for adoption with our agency choose to work
with us again.
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